Easy Flirt - Successful approach ( advanced )

Have you ever found yourself in the situation when you see someone at the subway station or in the cafe or simply in the street, that seemed to be a very attractive individual( at least to your personal opinion)? I am sure this happens to everyone and the worst thing to do in this case is to find yourself an excuse not to approach and then to realize the chance was ignored and regret it for a long time. So how to meet everyone you like, how to find courage to talk to a beautiful stranger - no matter what , he or she might be talking over the phone, busy or even with a bodyguard. I would like to share my personal experience and tips. 

The most advanced technique is to make that person approach You. It is more level-up method, though try it sometimes and see if you are ready for it or need some more practice. It doesn't always work , though IF it is applied, the attraction built and the success of that method is much more long-lasting and profound. This approach works better in the social gathering places - where no one is in a rush, everyone is having a good time, relaxed and laid-back. The key to success of that method is to build as much attraction to yourself as it is possible. Flirt with people around you, smile and talk, move around, meet new people, build social proof, and in some time you will see - people will start to approach you. When that happens, try to find that person in the crowd that you like - he or she probably already noticed you as well. Build some eye-contact, though always leave a trace of indifference. Try to keep that connection a little longer that is socially approved and when it happens - make a move. Let that person know, that he or she can approach. It is usually a little shocking for that individual, because you are probably the first one to act like this, and it works perfectly well. You already have some value for him/her, you are confident enough to behave like this and other people like you. Don't hesitate, Everything or nithing, challenge yourself and Good Luck!

Easy Flirt - Successful approach

Have you ever found yourself in the situation when you see someone at the subway station or in the cafe or simply in the street, that seemed to be a very attractive individual( at least to your personal opinion)? I am sure this happens to everyone and the worst thing to do in this case is to find yourself an excuse not to approach and then to realize the chance was ignored and regret it for a long time. So how to meet everyone you like, how to find courage to talk to a beautiful stranger - no matter what , he or she might be talking over the phone, busy or even with a bodyguard. I would like to share my personal experience and tips. 

I don't want to tell you something like " be confident" , " be yourself" - it simply doesn't work. You need an effective though easy and memorable method to use. I tried different ways from " 3 second rule" to " the first step" , anchoring and so on. First of all, take it as granted - approach will always go far beyond your comfort zone anyways. It is always a challenge, especially if we are talking about someone with a really high social status. DIfferent techniques work for different people and I found couple that work for me and want to share - in case you have a desire to try them out and see if it is good for you as well. 

The first technique is to " scream out quietly" , as I call it - it is really simple. Right before you noticed a 10-point girl or a really handsome man - and start feeling that tension inside - scream inside your mind as loud as possible something like "AAAAAAAAA" or "YYYYAAA".  It really stops the flow of any other thoughts in your head. Scream that till the very moment you are next to the person and start a conversation. It reminds me like our ancestors , leaders and kings inspired the troops and warriors with a loud sound and went into the battle in the first row. At some point you will have the same feeling from the deep past - fearless, brave, inspired.

The other way is to make it a challenge. Try to ask yourself - "Can I do this? Am I strong enough? Do you want to do this or regret later?" . This brings up that inner strength in front of an obstacle you need to overcome and gives that extra boost of energy to approach. And always remember the feeling of " Yes, I did it! There is thousands of men and women that didn't have courage to do that, but guess what ? - I DID it! I approached, I tried!" - no matter whether you were successful or not - remember.

 

First of all , what is eye-contact? You don't need to stare at the hot girl, for instance, or a charming young man, in order to get this connection. Make them see You, make them get your eyes in range. Make them seduce you. Sounds not so easy, but in fact, flirt is founded on the basic things, that will promote your inner confidence and teach you how to be successful in seduction. First of all, be different from everyone else - nothing crazy, though something eye-catching, something special. It is not just about your style and your clothes - more about how you move , how you talk and how you behave. Talk to different people - and this is the best method I personally like - find someone you are not so interested in, someone you can easily talk to. This someone - guy or girl, doesn't really matter, should be standing not far away from the individual you are into , so that he or she can hear everything well. Talk clear and loud - let the hottie pay attention to you first , form the first impression. To make it perfect, make the person you are talking to laugh and try to seduce you - let the target know you are social and friendly. Try to stand with your shoulder pointing to person you would like to meet ( standing with your back pointing to that direction means attraction and facing him/her doesn't leave it a chance for the ONE to evaluate you well and build interest).

Let's proceed to the eye-contact. Once you feel the person you would like to meet is highly interested in you ( he/she starts talking loud as well, laugh and move more than it was before, look into your direction more often), this is the right moment for your eyes to meet. Whet you feel this person is looking at you, make a slight turn with your head and look at him/her. Continue talking to someone you are talking right now - it really creates the feeling of detachment and indifference. Look at your target's eye and slightly , with a hint of evaluation , have a look at him/her from top to bottom, then look into the eyes again and smile with a corner of the mouth without showing the teeth - just a light friendly smile, meaning " yeah, you look OK today ;) " Don't forget , this is flirt and you can play whatever rules you like. Try to turn away BEFORE the target does. After that you can escalate the time you look at each other, and when this action lasts for longer than socially accepted - you will definitely feel it - this is a perfect second to approach or to make a sign that this person should approach you. This is what the next article will be devoted to. ;)

This article is entirely devoted to development of your unique style - as a primary point in seduction process. There are a lot of factors that influence your success in the pickup game - though strong positive first impression is essential. We accept people that are well dressed and nicely groomed as healthy and wealthy beings. Without even talking to a person we build the first impression basics that are really hard to change or erase. Your style is the definition of your social status - and by STYLE I don't just mean the way you look, but the way you behave, talk, stand, sit, walk...live... The most successful men and women don't have to approach anyone really - everyone on contrary , have a desire to talk to that shiny objects in the society simply because of the way they hold themselves, talk loud and clear, have a nice straight posture, smiling and enjoying every moment of their lives.
Dating and relationship plays a key role in every individual's life - someone might think money is the key to success , someone would like to have property in the Caribbean - but at some point of our lives , each and every one of us comes to the conclusion that without being effective in seduction, meet people you like or manage a perfect relationship with the One, life seems boring and fade.
Let's get closer to what we can do in practice. First of all, don't be afraid to spend. Style and sexuality are very liquid investments and will bring a good profit. You start thinking of yourself in a different manner - more confident, more self-oriented and strong. People pay more attention to you when they see you look different (in a good way), well- dressed, relaxed and laid-back person. Develop your style is not hard - it is just a matter of choice. I always recommend taking a good example from the movie character that you think possesses the most of the qualities you want to obtain. Put yourself into his shoes - what would he do in this particular situation, what will he say, how will he be dressed, how will he behave. And ask these questions to yourself. At some point the habit to behave in this role model will gently incorporate into your lifestyle and you will become the person you admire, respect and value - Good luck, experiment and try something New!

I am in the sphere of seduction and attraction development for 4 years so far and would like to share some exciting and new ideas I've learnt through this period of time. First of all, the first impression, according to my personal statistics, is the core to success - it is being formed within 90 seconds from the first time You See the person you are interested in and the person sees You. Couple hints on how to develop sexuality and build attraction at this point. Be confident - talk to people, even though they have no relationship to the individual of your interest. Let Her/Him see, that You are well-spoken, laid-back and relaxed. Besides, it is much easier than to talk to the persone you actually like. Make people around You smile. One time I put up an experiment - I chose the spot in the night club where the least women located  and occupied it , smiling to everyone passing by - including guys and girls. In around 5 minutes majority of the crowd on the dance floor moved by some magical way to the spot that I was standing. And the hottie that was in the opposite corner was now standing next to me with her back facing me and her friends telling something her on the ear, pointing at me. Good Sign. What happened next is another story ;)  

Result : You don't need to say a word to build the attraction - it is escalated with the right behavior.