First of all , what is eye-contact? You don't need to stare at the hot girl, for instance, or a charming young man, in order to get this connection. Make them see You, make them get your eyes in range. Make them seduce you. Sounds not so easy, but in fact, flirt is founded on the basic things, that will promote your inner confidence and teach you how to be successful in seduction. First of all, be different from everyone else - nothing crazy, though something eye-catching, something special. It is not just about your style and your clothes - more about how you move , how you talk and how you behave. Talk to different people - and this is the best method I personally like - find someone you are not so interested in, someone you can easily talk to. This someone - guy or girl, doesn't really matter, should be standing not far away from the individual you are into , so that he or she can hear everything well. Talk clear and loud - let the hottie pay attention to you first , form the first impression. To make it perfect, make the person you are talking to laugh and try to seduce you - let the target know you are social and friendly. Try to stand with your shoulder pointing to person you would like to meet ( standing with your back pointing to that direction means attraction and facing him/her doesn't leave it a chance for the ONE to evaluate you well and build interest).

Let's proceed to the eye-contact. Once you feel the person you would like to meet is highly interested in you ( he/she starts talking loud as well, laugh and move more than it was before, look into your direction more often), this is the right moment for your eyes to meet. Whet you feel this person is looking at you, make a slight turn with your head and look at him/her. Continue talking to someone you are talking right now - it really creates the feeling of detachment and indifference. Look at your target's eye and slightly , with a hint of evaluation , have a look at him/her from top to bottom, then look into the eyes again and smile with a corner of the mouth without showing the teeth - just a light friendly smile, meaning " yeah, you look OK today ;) " Don't forget , this is flirt and you can play whatever rules you like. Try to turn away BEFORE the target does. After that you can escalate the time you look at each other, and when this action lasts for longer than socially accepted - you will definitely feel it - this is a perfect second to approach or to make a sign that this person should approach you. This is what the next article will be devoted to. ;)